No Regrets

I have been reading He's Just Not That Into You, and I've realized every relationship station thing that has happened in my life hasn't been my fault. If a guy is really into me then he will ask me out, that's it! No exceptions, the guy will find some way to contact me. I shouldn't be the one who have to make all the moves. And the truth is the guys like the chase of getting the girls, it's a turn off when we ask them out. This has made me realize that every guy I have ever chased were not that into me enough to ask me out. For example that "going off to college guy" who I tried to tell I like him but went no where, except for him to college. I thought there were signs, and there were signs, but the signs meant nothing because he didn't go after me. He wasn't into me enough to ask me out. And I made excuses about how I was friends with his siblings, how he was going off to college, and how there was a slight age difference. Blah blah bull shit! All these excuses, for some guy who wasn't ballsy enough to tell me he liked me, or ask me out or anything!! I had the courage to tell him, and look were that got me? It gave control of my emotions, he had now had the power. I've fell for so many of these typical guys who you think like you but never make any moves. And I start pondering and obsessing and making excuses for why they haven't asked me out yet. The truth to all my misery is that theirs just not that into me. Every guy who I start to be friends with and think there might be something there but nothing happens, I need to just drop. I surely will still be friends with them but I just won't take it to this obsessive does he like me or not, should I ask him out, maybe he's shy stage. I will just have to move on and find someone who likes me.
I won't waste time regretting asking them out or feeling bad about myself. I just need to move on.